u/Additional-Wall-3122

I've heard they can be offensive and cause bi erasure, what do you guys think? I think they're fine as long as they arent abused or used too liberally.

Okay so basically I'm a girl who likes boys. Like sexually and romantically (more romantically fs tho). But for a few years (im 14) ive noticed girls more. I found out one of my female friends liked me and i got rly excited and also thought this girl was asking me out and was super sad when i realized i misunderstood. People say I give bisexual vibes and I dont really know why and I have tons of gay or bi friends. I go through points where I notice a girl a lot but i dont really get particular crushes on them. I wanted to kiss my female friend once but that was honestly probably nothing. I've dreamed about girls in a romantic and sexual sense but that's seperate from my real conciousness, right? I definitely like those dreams but i dont crave the exact same kind of attention as i do for girls from boys. And ive shyed away from using "bicurious" because apparently its biphobic and contributes to erasure. And this feeling isnt consistent it just comes up randomly and I think im just fishing for attention and want to be special. So anyways, what's the verdict?