Title is self-explanatory. they're almost ALL so selfish and self-absorbed it's actually insane. "ohh im so OCD!!" "Im so autistic!!" and then when someone ACTUALLY has these disorders/disabilities and shows symptoms of it, they make fun of them, call them weird, etc.
it just makes me FUME when i hear someone who has never struggled with mental illness a day in their life say some BULLSHIT!! like, "Oh your problems aren't others responsibilities!!" "deal with it yourself!!!" Like jesus christ omg. I can understand it to some degree, like if someone is constantly burdening you with their problems or using it to guilt trip you, but half of the time these people say shit like this it's just because they're too lazy or don't care enough to or are just too lazy to actually be there for the people in their life that need help.
you think your friend/partner/etc is being annoying by crying to you about how bad their life is?? how tf do you think THEY feel?? you can't just "positive vibes only 🦋" your way out of difficult situations just because you don't want to deal with them.
and on that note, the people that piss me off the most are these Christians that say shit like "Just pray to God!!" "everything happens for a reason!!" whenever you mention ANYTHING about how you feel or something bad you're going through. it's like they're trying to bypass being there for you because they don't want to deal with you. It's just SOOO invalidating and annoying GENUINELY.