To Americans, is the word 'ugly' perceived as something truly offensive rather than just a mean comment? Also, how does the impact of the word 'ugly' differ from calling someone 'unattractive'?
I'm curious about the nuance of these words in American English.
To be honest, I used to think that "ugly" was more of a casual, almost comical way to tease someone, whereas "unattractive" felt much heavier, colder, and more serious.
However, I’ve started to wonder if I have it backwards. To Americans, is calling someone "ugly" actually perceived as a cruel or offensive insult rather than just mocking? And how does it compare to "unattractive" in terms of social impact?
Edit: Thanks for all the help! I’ve gained a lot of insight into how these words are perceived in the US, and it’s clear I had the nuance a bit backwards. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to explain this to me.