u/AdAnxious902

This is work context. We both work in a gigantic office floor and the company is in a huge building with multiple floors. We sit completely opposite each other, her on one side and me on another.

1.) She will come around from her end to mine and just walk by. Sometimes multiple times a day. She will usually bring a friend for plausible deniability. One time I looked at her and she gave a shriek as if she was just caught. Another time, I looked at her and her friend, both of them remained calm and then when they left my sight and didn't think I was looking, I saw them break down laughing.

2.) Gets electrified when im around, its like a fire burns inside her.

3.) Once on the elevator I was typing something on my ig and she was behind me and she got antsy and couldn't stand still, she was bouncing up and down and kept trying to look at my conversation.

4.). one time I was sitting in a chair in our lounge area and listening to music on my ig talking. She saw me, about an hour later as I was passing the area I see her sitting on the exact chair listening to music. Its like she just wanted to be near me.

5.) Another time I was talking with 2 coworkers and she walked by like 5 times, exhaling loudly like she was frustrated.

6.). Me and her locked eyes last week for the fist time and she walked by my area twice with a friend.

It's like her body moves automatically and this has been going on for now about 1 yr. Now, a lot of the days she is focused on her work and she never see each other.

What do yall think? Crush? infatuation? or is it limerence? AI says limerence.

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u/AdAnxious902 — 15 days ago

I just want to know why would you? Was it just a distraction? Did you actually go on the date? Was the conversations active? Things of that nature.

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u/AdAnxious902 — 15 days ago

limerence is fantasy bonding right built on uncertainty and fantasy? What if it's no longer a fantasy because your LO reciprocates? What will happen?

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u/AdAnxious902 — 16 days ago