u/Actual_Giraffe_2633

AITK for feeling jealous because my bf keeps liking this one particular junior’s pictures and videos?

Am I the kameena for feeling jealous and hurt because my boyfriend keeps liking this one particular college junior’s pictures and videos literally almost all of them?

What makes it worse is that he once told me he sees himself in her like they have similar qualities and love for travelling….

On top of that he has also told me before that some of the qualities he prefers in a girl are things I don’t naturally have and then asked me to change myself according to what he likes.

Now whenever I see him constantly engaging with her posts I can’t help but feel insecure and wonder if I’m overreacting or if my feelings are valid.

I’m not upset just because he liked someone’s pictures. It’s the pattern, the comparison and the fact that he has already made me feel like I’m somehow lacking….

Am I being insecure and unreasonable here?

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u/Actual_Giraffe_2633 — 3 days ago