This has been weighing on my mind and I was contemplating on whether to say this over the phone, but I think it's best for me to write it out to you. I feel upset that you are pursuing a possible relationship with someone who was abusive to me and I feel hurt that you are doing this. I can't say that I am shocked because even when it was going on then it was dismissed, minimized and swept under the rug. I will not have anything to do with him and I am making myself clear about it to you.
u/Actual-Manager358 — 15 days ago