u/Actual-Ad-2180

I know people have said that they would just feel pain or have flashbacks to hard moments. But if connecting kurus means feeling the same exact thing, how is varang just chilling while neytiri is screaming in pain? Is neytiri in physical pain or emotional? In the other scene where she connects to spider and he passes out what exactly causes that? If it is just painful flashbacks of moments, how does varang know what to show them? Idk so many questions surrounding this singular topic