Me and my friend I’ll call N, have been friends for three years, we met through two mutual friends. I had a very bad falling out with said two friends and now only me and her talk.
Lately she has been very distant and when I say lately I mean the past few months. Usually we tell each other things, especially big events like one does.
She had prom she did not tell me until a week after, she said she never told me because I would “leave too quick” but my thing about that is she knew about having prom two weeks prior to me doing that (leaving quickly) I had done that because I had a personal matter. That really hurt me. She showed me the photos from prom and it made matters worse, I felt pushed off to the side and weird? I didn’t want got start confrontation so I pushed it off.
Then she got a boyfriend, I also didn’t find this out until a week after the fact and it was an accident that she even told me, she had brought it up on accident when we were joking about something. And I get it she can have her own personal life and not tell me but she’s my best friend, we’ve told each other everything and I mean EVERYTHING. Intimate matters, personal matters. Every single thing you can think of. So her not telling me either of those big events are mildly off putting.
On the rare occasions that I would tell her I loved her (rarely because of personal issues, it’s not something I say to anyone very often) she would say it back. I said I love you three times in a span of a month neither of which did she say it back. And I understand maybe she’s uncomfortable but that is not like her she’d always say she loved me back.
Nothing big has happened in her life for her to act like this? She acts normal with all her other friends.
I have a lot of personal things going on in my life right now and at this point I don’t see any reason to keep the friendship going…