u/Acrobatic-Leg1313

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So I f(15) am always talking about getting a job with my family including my mother f(47). We both have walked into stores and asked the age requirement for jobs to find me a job. I asked her around 4pm about a week or two ago if I could apply for sonic near our house (4 min drive,30 min walk, 20 min bus) she told me yeah go ahead and apply. I didn’t pick times that conflict with my school or her work. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore I want out of her house as soon as possible hints why I wanted a job in the first place I need help I don’t know what to do. I copy and pasted the messages so you guys tell me what I should do. I have been genuinely crying for 3 hours because I was so close now I’m not so idk what to even do

Me: I have an interview at sonic at 5:30 tmmr

Mother: No you don't These are decisions and discussions you have with me and not your friends. I will see you at 3:30 pm

Me: I asked you and you told me that I could apply so I did ?

Mother: When?

Me: When we were in the car together going home I asked you and you said go ahead

Mother: Your lying

Me: Also me getting a job as come up multiple times in multiple different conversations and you seemed to have no problem with it so now why is it a problem it’s not like I went behind you’re back to apply

Mother: You went behind my back is the problem

Me: I didn’t I asked you if I didn’t ask I would’ve never applied

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u/Acrobatic-Leg1313 — 17 days ago