I am so sick of the "failure mindset" that has infected an entire generation of men. I'm currently grinding for my BBA in Accounting and prepping for law school and the LSAT. I've realized the "minuscule percentage" of men who actually have their lives together is practically zero.
It's pathetic. Everywhere I look, it's just porn brain and gooning and video games. Men have replaced actual ambition with a dopamine loop of Tinder, video games, and brain-rot. While I'm studying until 2 AM to ensure I can provide for a future family and myself, my male peers are busy rotting away in a mediocrity loop they don't even want to escape.
Why are men so objectively bad now? It's like they've collectively decided that being a functional, high-achieving adult is too much work. They want the rewards of a relationship and the status of a "man" without doing a single thing to earn it.
l've accepted that I have to "be the man" I'm looking for.
I'm going to be the high-earner and the law degree holder because I refuse to tether my life to someone who's more concerned with his high score or his "goon" session than his career.
Is anyone else exhausted from carrying the weight of a society where women are forced to be the only ones with a spine and a plan, while only a small percentage of men actually go for higher education. Why is the bar so low that it's buried underground?
I have given up in the chance of knowing a man will actually be there for when I am pregnant or that I will ever get to have a kid with a loving and good dad. That a man may love me outside of intimate relations. And I’ve given up on the idea of marriage as a whole. I’m never getting married, I’ll get cheated on either emotionally or physically there’s no use.
This is a genuine concern, why are you guys like this and giving up.