Hi dear friends ,hope all doing fine.
I need an advice for a recent messup that happened in my friend's life.
For context : she's 34yo single woman and her engagement was called off long back because it was an AM setup and that boy was in love with someone else.
After that none of the proposals we suggest her dont work for one reason or other.
Now a year back she started becoming very close with a brother of one of her colleagues.He works abroad. This guy is married but from what I came to know has some intimacy issues with wife after havin children. He says its bcs shes having pcod/thyroid and never has any initiative for intimacy. So he's seeing other women who are equally depraved of intimacy.
So my friend and this guy used to flirt/sext with each other and never met in person though . But they used to have some arguments regarding anything under the sun and will stop talking for days and again he will msg back as if nothing happened and they will resume their relationship 🙄
Oru group of friends warned her against this saying its wrong and hes disrespectful towards her but she said its just for timepass.
There are also good chances that this guy's wife may get a transfer to my frnds hometown and still they continued with their phoning/sexting, but luckily due to work pressure never met in person.
Now 2 days back ,my frnd was at her home and night while speaking with this guy,had a huge argument about Politics of Kerala and it ended in a very bad note including both calling each other names. Next day she tried msging him and he replied rudely and it led to another argument.
Her parents already had some doubts, got hold of her phone and all things came to light.
Now her parents acted in a bit more modern or diplomatic way and msgd the guy saying things like " as the fault lies with both of you and things are turning bad /argumentative amongst you people, better stop this for all and both sides won't slander the other one"
When I read that whatsapp text it kind of looked like a genuine request mixed with a slight warning from her parents side. But they haven't used any unwanted wordings, just asking to stop their relationship from his side and they will make my frnd understand from their side.
This guy has read the msgs but hasn't replied yet.
Can any of you advice what can be in his mind or his next step.
My frnd now seems to understand/regret her mistake .
TLDR: A frnd got into an affair with married man, had a bad argument while discussing Politics and her parents found out. They msgd/requested the guy to stop all things btwm them
Pls advice. Sorry for the trouble you all 🤕