u/Accomplished_Bed360

I am new to the sub so apologies if this has already been asked.

A few years back I did an ultrasound and found out I had varicoceles. Doctor said to do nothing.

Fast forward now. Im 28M. For a few months I feel pain after I ejaculate, especialy if I stand up. I have a harder time getting and staying hard, which is very nerve wrecking, as I used to be a very horny person. I still am , just me penis doesn't seem to react to it.

Are this directly varicocele related ? My balls have also become visibly saggy , especialy the left one and I can feel the veins that have enlarged. I am planning to see an urologist but I am feeling kinda worried to what extend this is reversable.

Thank you in advance

So I used to have a tight forskin and after stretching for some months managed to see my head for the first time in my life. I can pull it back when erect but it gets stuck under my head. I have a short frenulum.

So i have 2 questions:

1. How do i get looser ? My dick is thick but once erect how do I widen more the tight ring?

2. I am at the point when I can touch my head with no problem but I can't seem to get that translated to pleasure. How do I get my brain to adjust ? Lol

Thanks in advance