I have a question, I consider myself more gay now but the more time passes, the more I see my potential future life with a woman (and yet I have no sexual/physical desire towards her although mentally it's another story) what do you think?
Hi everyone,
I’m looking for some advice or perspective on a personal dilemma. I’m a gay man and I’ve been exploring Judaism and the possibility of conversion. However, where I live, (in my country) Jewish community is quite small, very close-knit, and almost exclusively orthodox.
I’m feeling really conflicted because of the culture here. I recently heard a prominent local rabbi state that “Reform Jews are the worst enemy of the Jewish people.” Hearing that was incredibly alienating, as it suggests that any path toward inclusivity or a more progressive approach to faith is seen as a direct threat.
I’m worried that I’ll either be rejected or forced to hide who I am just to find a place in the community. Has anyone else navigated this? How do you reconcile your LGBTQ+ identity with a community that seems so rigid, without sacrificing your integrity? Any advice on how to find a spiritual path that feels authentic without depending on the approval of a narrow-minded local environment would be appreciated.