u/AccomplishedMany5541

So, my mother and father had been divorced on paper for a few years now, I said ‘on paper’ because my father still provide for us since my mom is a stay at home mom and all. If I have to give alittle background story of my father, he is never around since I was young and I am already 22. He was always ‘busy with work’ and never home. He is a massive cheater and I mean massive, he been cheating on my mom even before their marriage and continue to do so. Now back to present, apparently my father recently just have a daughter with god know who and everyone on his family was hiding that info from me, my younger sister and my mom. Now is it wrong for me to hate that child and that woman that I never knew existed. I know it’s not the child’s false but for me I can’t understand why would he have another child when he been absent to his already existing children ALL THEIR LIFE. Oh and since we are having some financial problems, he said ‘oh so should I kill someone and send their money to you then?’ And when my mom said it’s for the kids he said ‘well let them quit school n start working then’. It baffles me so much, now I have a job and it doesn’t pay much but I can support my own self with it..the thing I am worry about is my younger sister, she isn’t even out of high school yet..so if I gonna have to leave college and do multiple job for her, I WILL and fk u father even suggesting that a young child(my sister) should leave her education and start working when u are perfectly capable of supporting ONE child, I guess u wanna support your other family more then yes? Fuck You! I will forever be greatful that U supported me for 20+ years but what u said to my mother and my sister, I will always hate u for that.