Hello family
I am in a bit of a dilemma
I’ve been thinking about asking my ex girlfriend out for a date again.
We dated last year, she was 18 and I was 20/21 at that point.
She just got back from a year on Christian high school and was working.
Her dad is a atheist and her mom is full on fire worship leader and has also been mentoring me for worship the past year.
My ex was struggling a lot since she is dyslexic and has adhd.
We said we should take a break last year, mostly cause she had a lot of childhood stuff she wasn’t ready to open up about which was hurting the relationship, and was struggling a lot with her faith - I was more ready for a serious thing, whilst she was more for a funny unserious thing.
Since we stopped talking last year she hasn’t been to church.
I would love to ask her out, and talk, but I’m also scared, she hasn’t been to church since we ended things, but then again church is just a building, maybe her personal faith have grown?
Is this a waste of my time, or should I go and ask for it?
I do a lot of stuff church and Christian community wise.
She does none at the moment.
Everything else in our relationship worked out very well, but I ended things due to our faith and the stuff she hadn’t dealt with since her childhood which also was connected to her being dyslexic and adhd.
And yes I did everything I could, but I can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
Please help a brother out.
Maybe it’s just my flesh seeking for a relationship? Should I just drop it and hope to find a God fearing woman?
I have been praying about it but I need serious advice
Anyways. I need help. Anybody have had a lukewarm relationship where God turned the tables?
Sorry for the long post