I’m scared, but there’s still a little hope left. Is a healthy pregnancy possible after an ectopic pregnancy? ❤️🩹
Hi everyone,
I’m 34 years old and I live in Europe (Lithuania). I’m writing in despair but with a huge hope to hear your real stories.
For a long time (more than two years) we struggled with infertility and were monitored at a large fertility clinic. Then suddenly everything started working, but every pregnancy ended tragically:
September 2025 — biochemical pregnancy
October 2025 — missed miscarriage
November and December 2025 — two unsuccessful IUI cycles
January 2026 — hysteroresectoscopy, removal of a polyp in the uterus
February–March 2026 — IVF protocol, we transferred the best embryo 4AA — no pregnancy
April 2026 — spontaneous pregnancy, but it turned out to be ectopic, with two embryos in the right tube. The two babies got stuck just one centimetre from the uterus. On April 28 I had laparoscopic salpingotomy — the tube was saved (it had stretched to 3 cm).
My tubes were checked twice by HSG (July and November 2025) — patency was good both times. I regularly tested for STIs — everything was always clean, I never had any infections. Endometriosis was also ruled out during the surgery. After the IVF protocol I still have 3 embryos left: 4AB, 1BL and 2CC. Basically only one good one.
It’s now the 10th day after surgery. HCG is almost zero (5.38). I’m in a very bad emotional state: intense anxiety, fear of new adhesions, fear that I won’t be able to get pregnant and carry a baby again. Fear that I will never be able to have children. There’s a huge black hole in my soul that can only be filled by a living, healthy baby in my arms. But now I don’t know if I will ever have that chance. Will I ever see my child?
Girls, has anyone had a similar story (missed miscarriage + ectopic pregnancy)? Are there any real chances for me to have a healthy intrauterine pregnancy? Especially a natural one? Or after something like this does it usually only work through IVF, and even then not always successfully?
I really want to believe that I can still become a mother. But right now it feels like I’m collecting all the worst scenarios one after another. Please, dear girls, share your experiences.
I will be grateful for any stories, even the hardest ones. Thank you for reading 💔