u/Acc1dentalNPC

so my „straight“ crush sometimes picks me up and then drags me a bit with him, which I genuinely enjoy. Now I have two questions:

1. Could he also like me and enjoy it to pick me up and have contact with me?

2. How shall I react? Bc I really enjoy it, but I also don‘t really want my friends to think I‘m gay yet, and also don‘t want that he thinks I don‘t like it and doesn‘t do it anymore.

Thx

So we were in a restaurant and our waiter (each area has its own waiter) looked a bit gay to me, he is just typically gay. In any case, he was very forgetful, brought the wrong food, etc. My father apparently noticed this and when the waiter was not there, he quietly said to me (by the way, I'm not out yet) and my little sister: "We can't be so strict with him, he's just a little different." When I asked him what he meant, he said, "You know, he looks a bit gay," as if that was something you should pity him for or something, so my father is now homophobic and how am I supposed to deal with it? Thank you and sorry for the rough english.