I recently got a job offer in London, and I know how lucky I am—especially in a time when so many people are struggling to find work. But I’m feeling really conflicted about whether I should take it.
One of my biggest challenges is that I’m genuinely scared of being alone at night, and this has been intensified recently because I lost my husband. The idea of living and sleeping alone in a new city, where I don’t know anyone, feels overwhelming.
I don’t currently have any friends or connections in London to share a place with, which makes it even harder. I don’t want to pass up such a great opportunity just because of this fear, but it’s honestly affecting my decision a lot.
Has anyone dealt with something similar—moving abroad or living alone while dealing with grief or anxiety? How did you manage it?
Also, if anyone here is living in London (or knows someone) and is open to sharing a flat/room with a respectful, tidy female roommate, I’d really appreciate connecting.