u/Abject-Sky4608

As I’m going through recovery Im starting to realize that I had some serious issues when I was manic and hyper sexual. To be clear, I never committed SA or watched illegal content. However, I engaged in a lot of flings and spent way too much time watching porn and going to strip clubs.

I’ve at least overcome the religious shame I used to feel, but now I feel a different kind of shame from feminist friends who’ve described guys like me as being on the same level as rapists and pedos.

Any advice for dealing with this is appreciated. I‘ve come to forgive my past drinking and losing a job after getting angry but the past hyper sexuality makes me feel broken.