My GF seems toxic to me
I don't know if it's a wrong sub but right now I am in panic mode. Me (26) and my Gf (24) are together for 3 years, I am preparing for Data Analytics role and she is preparing for bank exams. So what happend is kal uske masi ki beti ki shaadi fix hui ( love marriage ). Vo beti MNC company me kaam krti hai and also she is influencer on Instagram of around 300k+ followers. Jis bande se vo shaadi kr rhi uska family business hai and khud Nykaa me achi post me hai.. around 2 lakh monthly... Dono pune ke Symbiosis college se padhe hai and vahi se affairs shuru hua hai...
Ab meri bandi ko ye chiz pata chali and uska mind manipulate ho gaya. Vo rhi ki you don't earn good, mujhe rich banda chahiye , mai apni life me kuch v sacrifice Krna ni chahti ..i told ki time to do..agle 3-4 saal me shaadi Krna hai abhi sath me grow krte hai...to bol rhi to bhi kitna hi rich ban jaoge 4 saal me...aur she told ki mere pass zameen ya assests wagera nahi hai to mere khandan me sab mazak udhaiga ki bina assets wale admi se shaadi kr li n all...I have two houses already baki mai kuch krunga..to boli ki still I need more. I assured you ki whatever you need I will give you ..whatever happiness I will give you...kisi chiz ki kami ni hogi and mai aj bhi uska har ek chiz ka support krta hu whatever she says... Then I asked her , what's your definition of being rich to bol rhi minimum 8-10 crore hona chahiye...( Vo youtube pe vlogs bahut dekhti hai to Triggered insaan ki behan sab ko follow krti hai and vesa lifestyle chahiye) . Kal se mera mind fuckup ho chuka hai.. I don't know what to say ..what to do .. I am serious about her but ab darr lg rha hai... Mujhe usne har baar insecurity pe rkha hai ki i can be easily replaceable.
Also, usne kabhi mujhse demand ni kiya gifts ki ..ya cafe / hotel gye ho to mai hi pay kru...to aisa ni hai ki gold digger types hai...na iska koi dusra Banda se baat hota hai aur mere se pehle bs 1 Bf rha h iska...ye sab pe mai sure hu. Bs ye easily manipulate ho jati hai..and fir vahi iske dimag me chalega...she is more into reel ki duniya and not in reality...please tell me kya kru mai ??? Kese samjhau ??