u/7okka

I wrote this a couple of days ago and got a lot of support back then, thank you all for the support:

"I know a girl, i have a crush on her, but im still not ready man, im still not ready.

God i wish i was ready.

Im still not the best version of myself, i still didn’t progress.

This crush came at the very worst moment.

But!

I’ll just let things come in their time, i won’t talk to her till im stable.

I hope things change in the near future, it is what it is."

Update: well it didnt work :), she didnt accept, and we went our seperate ways. Im glad i asked her out tho 😁👍

Every experience in life grants us wisdom.

Thank you all for the support 🙏🏼

im 27 years old, Am i the only one who finds socializing with people is so boring, draining and overwhelming

I feel like being alone is better for me.

But being alone and isolated sometimes is ķinda hard.

Ama bel7a9, whether it was online or in real life i get bored.

Ma fammesh tawafo9 fel 3a9liyet, i like ancient history, anthropology, philology and epigraphy and other stuff as well since i like aquiring knowledge (i still know nothing tho)

When i talked about stuff to some of my so called online friends. They just dont care. Sometimes i could yap about that.

In real life, i used to have some friends but they were not "real" friends, just pessimistic fools.

I tried friendship with women, and its the same. So boring. I even know a woman who used to be friends with me. And it got boring to the point i stopped sending her DMs. I stopped talking to people.

And they stopped as well, people rarely initiate as well.

Friendship in real life? Who cares about that!

Family! i get overwhelmed. And dont talk with them that much, theres nothing in common.

Nfedd mel lamma, sound of people talking a lot, kids crying is unbearable.

Even when i ride a taxi or ride with someone else and they start talking, i ignore them. Nothing interesting to talk about. I just keep daydreaming and talking to myself inside.

Me and my thoughts.

I socially isolated myself to the point where nothing seems interesting from talking to people. Mind you i dont feel awkward nor socially anxious. Just feel uninterested in talking with people. And connections for me, rarely last, online or in real life

I know a girl, i have a crush on her, but im still not ready man, im still not ready.

God i wish i was ready.

Im still not the best version of myself, i still didn’t progress.

This crush came at the very worst moment.

But!

I’ll just let things come in their time, i won’t talk to her till im stable.

I hope things change in the near future, it is what it is.

This probably hasn’t been discussed much on this sub because of all the noise from dating and breakup posts.

So I’m curious and genuinely asking, are there people among us here who deliberately chose celibacy and a life of purity and turned away from the pleasures of the flesh!?

And are there people here who prefer simple platonic friendships and deep conversations instead of romantic and sexual relationships.

Do some of y’all from a personal perspective see physical carnal desires as something lower and more animal than human and do you follow this philosophy in life.

If yes, why?! And how do you feel?

Tell us about your experience, do you feel this is more aligned with your goals? Do you feel more liberated? Do you feel like you conquered yourself? Do you feel emotionally and mentally strong? Or perhaps spiritually awakened?! And most importantly do you feel better?

P.s. i’m asking about people’s personal experiences here and whether they’ve chosen this path, this isn’t about sexual orientation or anything related to that