Hi! I am looking for someone to help with general accountability with life through messaging. I am in school right now, which is one of the areas I’m struggling with the most because of the way my depression and disabilities impact my life. if you are disabled and around my age too that would be super cool! I am also AuDHD
I am ordering new pull-up style briefs soon and am having trouble with the leak guards in the ones I currently use shifting so one side is essentially down the middle (female anatomy) and up my butt crack 😬. I wear pads most of the time and that’s okay. For long days, flare days, or if I’ll be moving around a lot I use a pull-up which is better than a pad but still causes issues with the leak guards.
Does anyone have tips to address this? Does it have to do with sizing or the brand I use?
also, personally diapers aren’t a great fit for me because my issues are on the mild-moderate end of the spectrum and so the price to use doesn’t seem worth it, but I’m open to recommendations