There’s no room for any sort of discourse without posts and comments getting flagged as reassurance seeking. To clarify: I don’t want reassurance, I understand why it’s bad for healing, and have never been flagged or had a post removed. Frankly I am tired of how redundant and vapid the “support” comments are. Everyone is so worried about censorship that we’re talking like freaking robots to each other and it’s weird. Half the comments start with “I’m not providing reassurance because it’s banned but…..”
Things that get flagged for reassurance include:
• sharing personal experiences
• sharing literal facts and data
I’m over it and after many years on this sub I think it’s time for me to find a different one because this used to be a safe space and now it’s just plain annoying and thronged with people trying to micromanage the healing of others