u/4d0lph

Fourth renovation. First time I didn't vet the contractors myself. Turns out there's actually value in letting professionals do it.

I'm 54. This is my fourth major renovation across three properties. Always handled contractor selection myself because I figured I knew what I was doing.

This time I tried realm just to see if their vetting would catch anything I wouldn't. Their process was more thorough than mine. They verify licenses, insurance, references, and review past project quality in detail. I usually just check online reviews and call one or two references because that's all I have time for.

The cost data they provided was helpful too. I've wondered for years if contractors inflate quotes when they sense I don't know the market. Having actual benchmarks from completed projects gave me confidence my three quotes were all in the right range.

Two months in and project is moving smoothly. Contractor they matched me with has been solid. No drama, which is honestly unusual.

Not saying you can't vet contractors yourself. I did it fine for three projects. But there's definitely value in having people with more time and resources do the verification work. Especially if you're juggling a full time job while trying to make renovation decisions.

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u/4d0lph — 22 hours ago

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u/4d0lph — 1 day ago

Is supergirl woman of tomorrow comic worth the hype?

Genuinely could not tell if the supergirl woman of tomorrow comic hype was real or just marketing for the movie so I read it on globalcomix over the weekend to find out before film discourse makes it impossible to get an honest take on the source material.

And... I think I get it? Tom king writes kara through the eyes of ruthye, this young alien girl narrating the journey, and the whole thing plays more like a space western than anything you'd expect from a supergirl book. The true grit comparison is accurate. Bilquis evely's art is probably the most beautiful thing dc has published in years, not exaggerating, the double page spreads are genuinely stunning.

What I keep going back and forth on is the pacing though. Very quiet and contemplative for long stretches, which I personally loved but I can absolutely see someone expecting standard superhero action feeling completely lost. The ending got me hard, the letter in the final issue is devastating in the best way and king lands it better than he lands most of his longer projects honestly.

Did the space western approach work for everyone or is this actually a polarizing book? Also genuinely wondering if the movie can capture what makes it special because so much of this lives in the internal, visual stuff that feels almost impossible to translate to screen.

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u/4d0lph — 2 days ago