u/47k

People who say they’re on the way but show up hours later

Really hate for someone to reach out to hang with me, say they’re coming over and then boom an hour, or 2 passes and they haven’t sent an update and are not here

It’s stressful in a way that I get stuck in a waiting mode and it just leaves every thing too up in the air and I can’t move along with the plan i had for my day until they arrive.

Every time someone does this, I am extremely annoyed and just simply ask them to not tell me they’re on the way until they are actually on the way and a reasonable time away. Literally let me be ignorant until you are actually en route to avoid this. Or just sent a basic update pushing the time back. It seems people insist on not being able to atleast do that.

Sometimes It just makes me want to cancel the whole hang out. I don’t like waiting anxiety.

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u/47k — 4 days ago