Look, I get it bud, she rescued you, she tended you, she's had to take over feeding the colony despite your amazing cooking stat because your alcohol withdrawal is making you use 2.5 logs per meal you cook and that's just not sustainable, she has a cool hat, I get it. I do. She's awesome. I picked her as my starting colonist for a reason.
But this is pychopath behavior. You have refused to take 'no' as an answer from her 4 times over 24 hours, and 5 times in just this 2.5 day span. This is not the behavior of someone who actually likes this woman, and probably not women in general.
If a pawn doesn't have psychopath, or misogynist/misandrist based on the target of their "affection", or maybe some other stuff based on DLCs I don't have, they really shouldn't be able to stack up more than 1 of these debuffs. 5 is right out.
...The sad thing is, she still has a +12 opinion of the guy. If he'd shut up for a week or two, she'd skyrocket to over +70 and he'd have a genuine chance. As it is, she's never gotten above +15 towards him because he just won't shut the fuck up.