I (25f) had a best friend (f26) who betrayed me on several levels. Manipulated, lied (still does), back stabbed, lied to my boyfriend about me saying I said something I never said and the list goes on and on and on.
Whenever she pops into my mind (which unfortunately is more often than not because our boyfriends are best friends) I become infuriated. I hate that she has that affect on me. I don't want to be angry I just want to move on.
I've read other posts and people say " don't think about it" or something similar. I can't though. My brain focuses on it no matter how much I try not to or to just let it go and move on but it's fricken hard, I can't seem to.
Note: our boyfriends hangout all the time, no biggie I've just stopped being around if she's involved and My boyfriend doesn't like her either.