So I'm a 27M , so I have moved out of my parents house in 2022 at the start of the year. I had a job at a company as a data modeler and was paid well and still was trading crypto on the side.Was left off from the job and was still making decent money.
I used to send my mum money and even bought her a phone and at that time I even bought my sister and dad a phone and also helped in Home projects such as helped my Mum with money to buy a car. I never have asked for money from my mum since 2022.
I wasn't looking for a job at the time since I was getting a good pay from trading now my situation isn't the best and I didnt tell her but she can see.
So my Mum is the controlling type.So whenever I suggest doing something I'd like she shuts me down or dismisses me and that's why I dont like telling her what I'd want to pursue like design stuff because I dont want her shutting me down and saying it useless as she has been doing in the past so I just tell her I dont know what I will do while in my mind I do have my own plan only that I'm not willing to share it with her.
Now she says that im not serious for 5 years and that im a joke.
She says that I haven't been serious for the past 5 years and I should act my age.
She keeps asking me what I want to do with my life but I don't want to tell her but in my mind I have my plans, they may not workout or they may but I don't want sharing it with her.
Currently I'm working a job that's not that well paying and I'm trying by applying to jobs.She keeps on saying that I should start going to companies leave my cv and even say that I should volunteer.
Any advice on how to maneuver this and any help would be appreciated.
Thank you.