So i am a (24M). I mean this is my first ever LDR, as i am someone who needs that presence to feel that love. And the person i am currently with is in USA.
We got introduced by a mutual relative, she wanted us to talk and get married eventually so kinda like setting us up. We both started talking just to make sure that the mutual relative would stop bothering us both. But pretty soon things got serious. As there was some serious tone from the very start. She is somewhat 1.5yrs older than me. So she has that rush to get married.
And now it’s been over 6-7 months and the talks are getting really disturbed . She is still in her student visa, she is unsure of what to do as her visa is about to expire. She doesn’t want to return to Nepal. And not being a desh bhakta or something it’s just that i hate America strongly. And now we are in a cross roads of some kind. Should i apply for my masters in the state just to be with her or do i stay here and enjoy the privilege of being in nepal and living carefree.
If i even apply, what are the odds that USA ley malai accept garcha mero visa accept garla. And she is planning to do some work or something college ma or apply for masters rey just to extend her stay. I mean she doesn’t even wanna come home to her parents( tho she talks about them all the time)….
Is it just me over thinking cuz bow somewhere i feel just because of me she is being weighed down. Like she would have been better off if she was dating someone who was in America so that this visa wala and double distance wouldn’t affect us in anyway.
Ps: my family and her family know about us talking and doing LDR … all thanks to that same mutual relative, turns out that the mutual relative talked with our parents first before making us talk and now we both are in weird situations as our parents are more excited about us being together than us.
Thought we have never met each other’s parents .