u/00_Anoymous_00

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(Please tell me I’m not the only one who feels this way!)I 22F came across a TikTok video of a teen probably 16M-17M, who was expressing his feelings and emotions to his girlfriend. When I opened up the comment section I saw one specific comment that really got to me for some reason it said: “So you want to be the girlfriend?” That really upset me because this is the reason why some men don’t want to talk to us women about themselves, and it’s not just that comment, I’ve seen multiple!!

This was my response: (As I replied to someone else and I stand by it completely) Are emotions only for women? Are we now gatekeeping emotions? Why are you slow? Please answer that. As a woman myself, I’m ashamed of how other women treat men when they actually decide to let loose and actually gather the courage to open and express themselves more. Just because a man is showing his feelings doesn’t make him any less of a man. At the end of the day ANY man who shows their emotions are way more of a man than a man who doesn’t show their true feelings!! Please use your brain before you decide to talk or type. Men please and I really do mean it, PLEASE do not be afraid to talk to us. You are still a human with feelings, just as us women. I promise most “WOMEN” want that deep connection with their partners. Men please do not hold yourselves back because someone told you “real men don’t cry or express emotions”, I promise it’s NOT true!!

u/00_Anoymous_00 — 12 days ago