u/-beanutbutter-

I’ve been friends with my bsf since middle school, we’ve had hundreds of sleepovers and we would always share my full sized bed, it was never a problem because we were kids. We are now both 19 years old and everytime she comes to visit and spend the night it is expected that we share my bed (mind you, still full sized). Now that I am older i’d like to have my bed to myself because I have trouble sleeping with other people. I feel bad kicking her to the couch or floor as we’ve shared the bed our whole lives and I dont want her to take it personally. Should I bring it up or should I just deal with it?