There's this relationship I'm trying to repair with someone from the past. We were in a 7 year relationship before and broke up for about 4 years. This year we're trying to see if things are better for us.
What I notice is that is we really hit it off well at the start. Intense, fun, steamy, and all. But as time goes by and we spend more time with each other, tension starts to build up and we argue over things that seem petty.
For me, I notice this urge of wanting to get out and be alone after being with her for at least a day, otherwise I emotionally check out or become irritable.
She is someone who takes pride in what she knows but tend to talk passionately about the same thing over and over again, which bores me after some time.
Is there any part of the chart that explains why? How will a relationship like ours play in the long run?