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i hope this discussion is actually allowed because i've seen less fruitful standalone posts here :-)

can my four eyes folks share some tried and true tips for us glasses wearers?? my main gripe is my eye makeup disappearing as soon as i put glasses on and them slipping down my nose (having a flat nose bridge as a south east asian surely doesn't help).

my best feature is my eyes but my high prescription just........ the difference between my face card with and without glasses is STARK hahahaha. i've been looking at tiktok for hacks but more often than not the girls stay looking good because they're already so gorgeous 😭

My older sister has been seeing a therapist and has been diagnosed with anxiety and MDD. She is not medicated but she sees the therapist once a week.

She used to be a doctor but she resigned and has been unemployed for the past 3 years citing mental health issues, but she's only started going to therapy early this year.

She constantly argues with our mom -- it's verbal, but there have been cases where she throws stuff around the room (not directed at anyone, as far as I know). Mom berates her for not working, she gets defensive, boom kapow. BUT, recently they had an argument where she was physical with our (elderly, by the way) mother. I didn't witness it, but my mom said she shoved her. Not enough to topple her, as they were both seated in the car, but this is the first time she has gotten physical. This is on top of yelling and insulting her.

I have been worried but the shove is what made me fucking worried sick. I want to take action before it gets worse... What steps can I take to ensure those who need help get the help they need? I know eventually I need to talk her, but what are some tangible things I can do? I need her (and my mom) to understand the gravity of the situation.

Some context -- our family, like lots of other, arent great. I myself go to therapy.