How do I detach from the logical
Quick backstory: I was discarded by my avoidant ex 6 weeks ago. She said she “no longer has the capacity to be in a relationship” after a year of serious intentional dating (met her family, met her kids, met her friends and colleagues).
I’m going to put aside how she may have actually felt about our relationship as an avoidant. For me, it was real. My efforts, emotions, and dedication were all real. And very humanly, I still want her as my person.
Before turning to the laws of assumption and attraction, I went down that rabbit hole of attachment theory and what avoidant attachment patterns even are. I’ve learned a lot about what may have internally happened with her, and it all came down to childhood traumas that created trauma responses once she reached certain levels of emotional intimacy her nervous system could no longer handle, hence the discard.
All that to say, if I am to practice manifestation techniques to bring my SP back into my life, how does that work when a part of my mind offers logical explanation for why my relationship ended in the first place?
Furthermore, how will manifestation techniques and practicing assumption and attraction laws negate my SP’s behavioral patterns? If I’m manifesting, then all of the sudden, her mind is just instantly rewired to have capacity for a new relationship with me?
Any clarity or manifestation advice is welcome