u/Beginning-Pride3843

Recebi a proposta de uma vaga para me tornar tech lead em uma startup do setor financeiro. Sou desenvolvedor sênior em uma consultoria gigante há 2 anos. Se a vaga fosse remota, não pensaria duas vezes devido ao aumento salarial. Caso aceitasse a vaga, teria de me mudar para o centro de São Paulo, visto que moro em Guarulhos. Já planejava a mudança ano que vem, pois estou me preparando para o vestibular e estudar em SP.

O que fariam no meu lugar?

Edit: ambas as vagas são CLT, e meu currículo é cheio de vagas de 1 ou 2 anos.

Em 1926, Henry Ford reduziu a jornada de trabalho de suas fábricas para 5 dias na semana, totalizando 40 horas semanais. Ele fez isso devido à taxa alarmante em que seus empregados ficavam exaustos pelo sobretrabalho. Com muito esforço da classe trabalhadora, essa média se tornou cada vez mais comum no mundo todo.

No Brasil, quem trabalha no regime 6x1 tem uma média semanal de 44 horas, sendo a carga horária média dos ocupados de 39 horas semanais. Sério: um século de história, e ainda estamos aqui, dado o avanço da tecnologia produzimos absurdamente mais. Que situação deprimente e revoltante! O mais revoltante é saber que uma grande parte dos trabalhadores defende esse modelo e aqueles que os colocam nessa situação. Enquanto a prioridade for o capital e não a humanidade, isso não vai mudar.

I'm 24M and have been single for about 5 years now. I guess that during the first four of those years, I didn't suffer much from loneliness, but this last one, my God, I can't even believe it. I guess I've been realizing more and more that the best moments of my life were shared with somebody, and as my friends and I have gotten busier with adult life, I've started doing more and more things on my own.

At first, it wasn't that hard. It was actually good not having to depend on or convince anyone of what to do, and just feed my interests. There were a few nights of loneliness, but they weren't frequent. But nowadays, every time I go out, I'm often distracted by the fact that I'm one of the only people alone in a place. I'm constantly daydreaming about a romantic partner. Most nights, I cry from profound loneliness.

I have a good job, I have hobbies, and I'd like to believe that those could be enough for me to be happy, but now I doubt it. I'm lost and don't know what to do. I would really enjoy being happy by myself in solitude, as I was in my first years alone. My friends advised me to download dating apps. I knew that would be bad advice, but I tried it anyway. The apps only served to hurt my self-esteem. For some time, I tried to socialize at events, go to hobby groups, and try to make friends with strangers, but it seems that in adult life, every interaction is superficial. I'm also very shy, so these interactions drain a lot of energy.

Even though I consider myself mature and dependable, I'm sure that putting all that weight on somebody probably wouldn't lead to a healthy relationship, and since I haven't had the opportunity to try, I'm not even sure it would fill the void. So I guess I need to learn to be okay by myself, but I don't know how to do it.

I'm 24M and have been single for about 5 years now. I guess that during the first four of those years, I didn't suffer much from loneliness, but this last one, my God, I can't even believe it. I guess I've been realizing more and more that the best moments of my life were shared with somebody, and as my friends and I have gotten busier with adult life, I've started doing more and more things on my own.

At first, it wasn't that hard. It was actually good not having to depend on or convince anyone of what to do, and just feed my interests. There were a few nights of loneliness, but they weren't frequent. But nowadays, every time I go out, I'm often distracted by the fact that I'm one of the only people alone in a place. I'm constantly daydreaming about a romantic partner. Most nights, I cry from profound loneliness.

I have a good job, I have hobbies, and I'd like to believe that those could be enough for me to be happy, but now I doubt it. I'm lost and don't know what to do. I would really enjoy being happy by myself in solitude, as I was in my first years alone. My friends advised me to download dating apps. I knew that would be bad advice, but I tried it anyway. The apps only served to hurt my self-esteem. For some time, I tried to socialize at events, go to hobby groups, and try to make friends with strangers, but it seems that in adult life, every interaction is superficial. I'm also very shy, so these interactions drain a lot of energy.

Even though I consider myself mature and dependable, I'm sure that putting all that weight on somebody probably wouldn't lead to a healthy relationship, and since I haven't had the opportunity to try, I'm not even sure it would fill the void. So I guess I need to learn to be okay by myself, but I don't know how to do it.